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Helping Your Cat Settle

A step-by-step guide to making your cat feel safe, comfortable and loved in their new home.

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Why It's Important

A smooth transition builds a foundation for a happy life together.

Reduces Stress

A new environment can be stressful for a cat, and a smooth settling-in process minimizes anxiety and helps your cat adapt more comfortably

Builds Trust

By creating a welcoming and secure space, you build trust with your cat, and start to build a strong bond

Prevents Unwanted Behaviors

A settled and content cat is less likely to exhibit behavioral problems, such as aggression or inappropriate urination, which can be triggered by stress

The 3:3:3 Rule

Key milestones to guide you as your cat settles in.

When thinking about helping your cat settle into your home, the 3:3:3 rule is a good framework to reference. In a nutshell, the 3:3:3 rule will give you a sense of what to expect from your cat after 3 days in your home, 3 weeks in your home and 3 months in your home. While every cat is different, the 3:3:3 rule can provide a helpful approximation.

3 Days (to decompress)

During the first 3 days your cat will be adjusting to their new surroundings and getting to know your family. It's important to give your cat plenty of time and space to explore and get comfortable. Things to do/not do during this period:

  • Wait at least 72 hours before allowing visitors into your home.

  • Keep your new cat separate from your other animals at first and then introduce them slowly

  • Allow your cat to come to you for affection and never force them to cuddle or be held

  • Provide them with a safe space

  • Avoid overstimulation and try to keep everyone in your house as calm as possible when interacting with your new cat

  • Create a relaxing environment by playing soft music

3 Weeks (to learn the routine)

During this time your cat is starting to settle in, getting adjusted to their new environment, bonding and is getting used to your routine. It's important to be patient, consistent, and supportive during this period, as your cat may still experience some stress or anxiety.experience some stress or anxiety.

3 Months (to feel at home)

By this time, your cat should feel more settled and comfortable with your family. Some cats may take longer to fully adjust, while others may transition more quickly, so it's important to be patient and flexible.

Your Future Self (and Your Cat) Will Thank You

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